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If You Feel Guilty Saying No, Read This
If the word “no” makes your stomach drop...If you rehearse ways to soften your boundaries so people don’t get upset...If you say yes even when you're tired, overwhelmed, or resentful...
You're not alone.
For so many people—especially those who experienced emotional neglect, parentification, or chronic people-pleasing—saying no can feel unsafe.
Danielle Lucia, LMFT
Aug 23 min read


Why Am I So Triggered Lately?
If you're feeling more triggered or overwhelmed lately, you're not alone and it's possible to heal.
Danielle Lucia, LMFT
Jul 263 min read


What Is Brainspotting? A Science-Backed Approach to Healing Trauma and Anxiety
If you’ve tried talk therapy or even EMDR and still feel like something’s missing, you’re not alone. Many of my clients come in saying,...
Danielle Lucia, LMFT
Jul 133 min read


Why You Can’t Think Your Way Out of Anxiety: The Role of the Nervous System in Healing Trauma
If you’ve ever said, “I know I’m safe now… so why do I still feel this way?” - you’re not alone. Many of the people I work with are...
Danielle Lucia, LMFT
Jul 133 min read


Understanding Complex PTSD in Adults: How It Affects You and How Brainspotting Can Help
Complex PTSD can impact how you see yourself, relate to others, and feel in your body. Learn how it develops—and how Brainspotting helps.
Danielle Lucia, LMFT
Jun 283 min read


What is Emotional Neglect? And How it Might Be Showing Up in Your Life
“I’m Fine”: Understanding Emotional Neglect and Its Invisible Impact We often think of trauma as something that happens: a major event,...
Danielle Lucia, LMFT
Jun 203 min read
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